Don’t be shocked – there are many swinging seniors who want to experiment with new partners in a safe environment. Is this kind of lifestyle for you?
Swinging isn’t only for young couples. Seniors who want to spice things up and who are thinking about swapping partners can also partake in a little sexual experimentation. Before you decide to become swinging seniors, though, here are few things that you should consider.
Attending Events for Swingers Is a Great Way to Meet People
One of the first things that you might ask when it comes to swinging is, “where will I find the right person?” Well, that’s easy, as there are many events that are specifically set up for swingers. The right host will provide a venue where a party will be held and you can mingle to meet that special someone for the night. But it is a good idea to stick with parties that require attendees to get tested for STDs, to provide a clean bill of health, and to use protection.
Once you have found an event that you like, it’s possible that more events will be held in the same venue with many of the same attendees. Before long, you might start recognizing your favorites, in addition to meeting new people all the time.
Attending these events with your spouse or partner is a good way to ensure that you are both comfortable with everything, and many couples even choose to share the details of their experiences with each other to be certain that there isn’t any jealousy involved. After all, swinging shouldn’t come between a couple; instead, it should serve as a way to keep boredom at bay and keep the relationship strong.
Your Senior Years Are a Great Time to Experiment
Your sex life doesn’t have to fizzle out just because you’re a senior. And because you’re older and your kids are adults who are living on their own, you now have more time and freedom to have a little fun and experiment sexually. Swingers clubs and parties are a fantastic way to meet new people of all ages, too, so depending upon your preferences, you could spend the night with someone who is much younger than you are, or you could meet someone who is around the same age if that makes you feel more comfortable.
Some couples find that, by swapping partners for a night here and there, their own sex life is reignited. Others attend swinger parties to just have fun, viewing sex as a bonus that isn’t always required. And whether you attend with the intention of finding another couple to swap with or you go your separate ways in search of the right person is entirely up to you and your partner.
Keep Your Partner’s Feelings in Mind
Swinging works for a lot of senior couples, but it isn’t for everyone. If you’re thinking about trying it, it’s time to have an open and honest discussion with your partner to see if he or she is up for it too. Also, keep in mind that swinging might work to help a relationship, or it might have the opposite effect and make a relationship even more strained, so having this discussion upfront, and keeping the lines of communication open even after you’ve experienced your first swingers party, could be extremely beneficial.
Overall, whether you choose to swing once or you make it a regular occurrence, it could be just what you need to make your sex life more exciting and help you feel more youthful. Plenty of swinging seniors are already doing it, so if you’re ready, you certainly won’t be out of place.