Dr. Debra Tarantino
Debra Tarantino Clinic Millburn
231 MILLBURN AVENUE
Millburn, NJ, United States
07041
231 MILLBURN AVENUE
Millburn, NJ, United States
07041
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I was referred to Tarantino by my urogynecologist. I had cystocele and possible rectocele and enterocele to be diagnosed by her. I had just had a hysterectomy and bilateral oopherectomy. I had history of constipation and we thought those surgeries might help because I had fibroids possibly causing blockage.
She said one has nothing to do with the other and stopped me from telling anymore about my medical history and asked how long I go without having a BM. I have gone 7 to 8 days without. She said that that's nothing and she has patients who don't have BMs for a month or more
She asked if I ever tried splinting and I had but I get severe nerve pains in thumb and wrist when I bend wrist that way due to prior carpal tunnel surgeries, (plus it's just gross to have to stick fingers in my vag and press on things in order to poop, but I didn't say that.)
She laughed at that as if I was making it up about my wrist. I asked what she did for patients who don't go for a month at a time and she said it doesn't matter, everyone is different. I told her it's incredibly painful and uncomfortable to not go for a week and is there anything she could help me with. She said she has to examine me and had me put gown on.
She took me into a room that looked like a room for dancing. Literally. It was long and empty and had a wall length mirror across entire room.
She told me to bend over and push/do Valsalva. I did and she said you have perineal descent. I asked what that was and she said it looks like a baboon there. Yes. She said my perineal area looks like a baboon. She didn't offer any other info based on that, ie, I probably have rectocele and cystocele that are causing some blockage. She ordered some dynamic tests and motility tests. I also asked her how often she goes and she said every day.
I had just been through menopause overnight due to surgery (and that doc was old fashioned and refused to rx estrogen) at a very vibrant age of 46 and by then I felt I was 75 and falling apart.
And then I went to her office and she diminished my issue, offered no solutions, laughed at me, and demeaned me and said i look like a baboon down there. I put my clothes on left that so called doctor's office as quickly as I could.
Submitted Oct. 1, 2021