Ratings for Dr. ymer carly
A public act littered with corporate influence and sponsors having editorial control. Behind closed doors in a real life personal experience with carly, she had no idea what a reality and a situation was like for the client, she had no oneness with the victim, what drives the person, who causes the suffering, all she did was create more hatred, more of that same abusive energy, she never ceased any suffering. She was addicted to her own source of anger and it showed in her small, ignorant view of life and the world. She had narrowness of mind and nothing but persecution in sessions.
carly ymer’s hypocrisy was both delusional and narcissistic. “i will claim in this overly, Loud fake tone (not convincing the client, who can see through the attempt at an act to convenient them) how ‘MY MIND CAN BE VERY OBJECTIVE HERE AND I WONDER WHAT ELSE THIS WOMAN COULD’VE BEEN THINKING”. She then went onto change words, lie and falsely accuse about situations to raise an argument for her original ignorant based totally on misinterpretation and her own biased past experiences inciting prejudice, theory. If the client speaks up about their own experience which carly had no understanding of but WAS SO OBJECTIVE IN? She'd angrily claim: “BUT YOU’RE MAKING PRESUMPTIONS THOUGH YOU DON’T KNOW THAT!!!” she said in this nasty snappy impatient tone. “BUT YOU’RE MAKING THE PRESUMPTION!!!!”” she near screamed out. So carly gives herself permission to lie about you many times over in situations she’s not been a witness too, if you speak up to her self proclaimed ‘OBJECTIVE MIND’ she’ll scream about you making presumptions. She was inconsistent, emotionally unstable and so full of holes not only in her arguments presented themselves, but in her entire way I couldn’t keep up with the number of wrong’s she was committing it was so traumatizing. carly's hypocrisy: “I will give myself permission to speak in an outrageous, angry aggressive tone, I will fly off the handle with whatever descriptive adjectives I chose, but for those around me? They need to slow down and think before they begin to stutter any form of disagreement with me aka contradicting my lies for my theory.” A trade mark characteristic of carly who is insecure and aggressive and not the least bit genuinely confident in themselves, their approach or their argument. In the end it was carly ymer, running a one woman show – for herself, to herself, throwing things at the client. That’s exactly what happened in her life – she was so disconnected and uncaring of others and off in her own sick mind with no real self awareness –she ended up alone – through alienating others, not being aware of them at all or truly caring about them. Her agenda was so sick unto itself. My mum said she should not be allowed to practice and the only credentials she has is her own agenda. carly ymer wasn’t interested in validating the client’s voice or experiences, just her own ignorance, agenda and her aggressive lies which she boldly, stubbornly, loudly pronounced. What happened in that room, her abuse, how she mistreated clients, came back to her in her own life. In sessions she uses the ‘skill’ of interruption, it doesn’t matter what she says as long as she’s talking the most and the loudest her insecurities and aggressive egoistic self considered that a win, despite the fact it was based on lies and ultimately she reaped what she sowed, carly dominated through manipulation, lying, intimidation through her anger, dramatization through her aggression and her hypocrisy – not allowing the client to pursue something she felt insecure and threatened by, but that was perfectly valid too and was the whole reason they were there – to heal and change things. To give herself permission to speak in which ever way she please, using and slinging whatever words she pleased while lecturing and falsely accusing the client, not allowing the client to merely mention something that they selves brought up several times in several sessions. carly: ‘SOME PEOPLE WHO COME IN HERE ARE SO STUCK ON THIS’ and ‘MY PARTNER’ left her and her agenda of ‘THERE ARE SOME THINGS I WANNA DO BY A CERTAIN AGE!!!’ didn’t happen. life didn’t give that to her, and handed her a few much needed lessons for her angry, aggressive, impatient, snappy, manipulative, dishonest, snide, perverse, underhanded self instead – ‘oh that wasn’t me, that was just society’s expectations I was living by and bending to the will of others’. Blurting out aggressively whatever was on her mind thoughtlessly, never letting others speak, ignoring ethics and honesty – that wasn’t bending to others will nor was it any expectation society imposed on her – carly is sick and should be held accountable. People didn’t hurt her - “those who have hurt me” she hurt herself and others. The proper context, was that she lied to emotionally manipulate the client, dominated them right to the door and then gave a mealy mouthed nice appearance upon an open door of the consulting door to the hall as well as a different act on social media to escape responsibility. carly ymer was dishonest and disingenuous in my experiences of her. carly ymer actively misused what the client shared, to cause slander. She ruined and sullied knowledge and facts under the pretense of theory. Correct use of ethics was absent and she had no respect for the practice of therapy. carly ymer was so controlling she would try to orchestrate the client’s experiences and narrative according to her ignorant issue filled theory and agenda.
There’s no amount of blowing kisses at their phone camera that will erase the reality of the way they treated clients and people and the damage that ensued. She can claim she’s changed, she can put on a different act, but people who knew her prior October 2015 when her social media presence and activity changed into an advertising gimmick to attract clients and sell rings and exercise gear, know that this person was absolutely nothing like meditative, calm, spiritual, honest, kind, consistent with respectful standards and treatment. They weren’t interested in health they knew nothing about exercise and they certainly weren’t spouting off Taoism’s, they knew nothing outside of manipulation, dishonesty and aggression. Of the person who abused me, they said so insanely and ignorantly ‘maybe they feel they need to be that way to get through life’ empathetically. They had empathy for the abuser and none for the client. ‘getting through life’ was their actual self proclaimed mantra told to the client in session, and they got through it via aggression. I left her because I didn’t want 1) someone who gave undue empathy to perpetrators 2) totally misunderstood and misread situations 3) was so spiritually short sighted and limited that they claimed empathetically ‘maybe they feel they have to behave that way to get through life’ of an abuser. I wanted someone educated, honest, fair and professional, not someone who ‘got through life’ especially ignorantly and aggressively the way she did and showed me in one on one sessions with her. Until that anger and aggression caught up to them and they weren’t going to ‘ THERE ARE CERTAIN THINGS I WANNA DO BY A CERTAIN AGE!’ get any of that by being the self painted curly haired, big brown eyed, honest innocent little girl that they sickeningly describe themselves as. No integrity, honesty, sincerity. When she opened the doors, here’s how manipulative and fraudulent she was: she’s just traumatized a client through her aggression and abuse, she’s talked, walked and ran all over them and opens the door to put on a giggly, smiley happy face. All of which showed she had self control, but she manipulated it depending on her audience. It’s insane to watch how she talks herself up and puts other people down. “YOU HAVE ISSUES!” she said sneering and smirking. “what do they say, don’t be stupid?” “IF IT WAS ME I WOULD'VE SAID LOSER!!” they attacked , judged and accused. And clients who have been traumatized by her behaviour have to observe the fraudulent display of hypocrisy and egoic self love they postulates on social media. What about the client’s right to self esteem and confidence? Or did going to church on a Sunday and seeing family surpass their ignorant, black and white culturally impotent outlook on the way things are supposed to be in life so they retorted sarcastically “and you enjoy that???!!!”. Meanwhile those who they have abused stand back and observe them talking about ‘truly madly deeply’ and their ‘pearl’, it’s totally sickening and an insult to say the least to those people carly ymer's done a huge amount of damage too. Nothing of what is postulated on their social media articulates the way they acted in my experiences with them. Apart from false hoods, and false impressions put out there when we had an audience, in private they were NOTHING like they make themselves out to be now. They didn't 'drain oceans', (another social media self descriptive geared as a self compliment) No they drained people through their aggression. She was impossible to communicate with because she was so insecure and aggressive and nothing you could say she didn’t have a snappy, frustrated, impatient, angry, aggressive, attacking, sarcastic response too.
Be the change by being kind, loving and gently curious. find inner peace by being peace. Hardness is killing us softly. Fight for the light, the love the gentle. Be a warrior for that which is kind, find the truth through gentle analysis and curiosity. Find love by being love. Let's not manipulate our bodies in military ways. Let’s not say to clients “what do they say? Don’t be stupid?” Let’s not make snide, mean spirited, sneering, bullying comments towards client who is sitting there shocked and traumatized and hasn’t said anything at all. Let’s not be a shot through the door Let’s not snap at clients who barely open their mouth to talk about where they’re at with their homework ‘IT’S NOT ABOUT THAT’ snapping at them in a dry, cutting way. We knew about these ideas about how to treat people many years ago, we all treated carly this way years ago, and she returned it with nothing but the most anti social angry aggression I’ve ever encountered in a supposed ‘professional’, which is why she ended up with the results in life she did. Let’s not be all about aggressive because it alienated people. You didn’t find love, relationships or non cancelled clients by ‘being’ love’ Carly’s preaching to everyone else now what I saw years ago about her and knew she was headed for the results she ended up getting. Instead sprout spiritual wisdom which is always only ever love kindness truth compassion and heart. My answer has become and will always only ever be, courage my love. Courage to listen, courage to love myself, courage to love you unconditionally, courage to be kind and courage to let go. It used to be ‘only ever’ now it’s ‘become’ because carly was always about aggression never love. Carly had an agenda in conversation that had nothing to do with courage but everything to do with insecurity. She had aims in life that had everything to do with fear 'I KNOW WHAT MINES ABOUT! THERE ARE CERTAIN THINGS I WANNA DO MY A CERTAIN AGE!'. She not only didn’t exhibit any of those qualities she practiced the exact opposite. She exemplified aggression through her anger, her gumption, her loud tone, her dominating, manipulating and dishonesty. Authenticity was missing her dishonesty, manipulation and the way she behaved around others compared to when I was alone with her. The superficial platform of an edited, sunlit picture with pretty words, sayings and emojies is not real, but the way carly behaved, not what she practiced and not how she treated clients in their personal experience of her. Their experience was traumatic because she was so angry and abusive and that is what life handed her in return. She had a tight fisted aggressive stubborn, defiant, angry voice, that’s how she the client and as such, that’s what she got back in life. Now the adage is “you only get what you put in” something a lot of us already knew as clients from a young age, but carly wouldn’t hear it. Carly was only interested in carly being loud and reassuring for herself, now she preaches on peace – peace she never had at no one’s fault but her own. Peace she could never pass onto the client or a relationship because all carly was ever made of was aggression NEVER love. I know her, I got involved regrettably. The reason why clients walked out traumatized was because you exhibited ignorance and ultimately aggression NEVER love. Would sit and smirk at the client staring trying to disarm them saying “do you think those issues CAN be resolved” like whatever we’d put on the table was irredeemable to her. Yes carly they can be resolved, just not with you. With someone who had a good head on their shoulders, who was sensible, intelligent, honesty and professional and wasn’t a bully. Find the courage to change with softness, humility, and kindness. Be gentle with yourself for you are much loved. Carly ymer’s idea of courage: to repeat lies as often as she could, aloud to reassure herself, so the client didn’t get to say different and finish the session by saying ‘AND I’ll SEE YOU THURSDAY’. Now she’s writing about what so many of already knew but watched this aggressive bully act in every way but: real courage has humility and softness. Humility is not making sneering, nasty comments at the client with glee to get a reaction. Softness is not snapping at the client or venting angrily at them. She is EVERYTHING but the way she describes in this post in my experience.
Incredibly #ignorant, #perverse, #aggressive, #insecure, #loud, #angry, #stubborn, #defiant, #dishonest, #manipulative, #liar, #talks snaps over the client #underhanded #lies to build up an argument #has to dominate - no wonder she's alone. Facebook/instagram likes don't count for a cent other than in a narcissistic insecure mind, it's actually how she treated clients and people in her life - both of which cancelled and walked away from her. Carly Ymer reaped what she sowed, the manipulative, aggressive, dishonest, underhanded aggressor she always was. "Have to be that way to get through life" is what she said to describe her behaviour. Well others want no part of it. She was so ignorant and interpreted things in two ways 1) immature/inexperienced/ignorant 2) manipulative/changed/lied.
More venomous than venom. Lies start fires of lies. Guilty of what they critique in others. Do as I say not as I do was the philosophy. Family member said they bulldozed their way through everyone. So I said goodbye you incredibly insincere, use and abuse and walk all over other people with what other person present described as steel studded boots. "It's all about me me me me". Nothing appealing about being a narcissist. Social media is just that - for their marketing, so fake and staged.
This is our 'relationship expert" the tantrum throwing, aggressive, manipulative, insecure, loud, angry carly ymer. Who has taken to social media to describe herself under every hashtag that could not be more possibly opposite to who she was in sessions and in relationships. Name calling, dishonest, patronising, perverse, angry, unhappy, aggressive, manipulative, prideful, dishonest, agenda's, bulldozers, ignorant and that's to say the least. This picture, shows the holes in her dishonest ways, it shows her up completely. http://prntscr.com/cm1mz7 What sort of a supposed professional advertises themselves as being able to assist with relationships particularly in a clinical psychology setting and proceeds to post something a teenager or a pre teen would post? Carly Simone Ymer. The language is incredibly immature. Her incredibly narrow minded ignorance is showing, and despite efforts to paint herself otherwise on a public forum, just like behind closed doors she falls short. Certainly just as clients who have cancelled their appointments with ymer in the past, any relationship that she proudly, loudly and boldly pronounced she had with ‘MY PARTNER’ has long since dissipated. Assuming at this point she has made the realization that she can’t stomp her way through people to achieve her own agenda in life in the most aggressive way possible. People have just walked away from her, her anger, aggression and stubbornness. Certainly nobody is interested in being with anyone that aggressive or ignorant and for a person of 40 odd years old to go around like a preteen or a teenager who hasn’t yet grown up. Perhaps they don’t wish to be with someone self absorbed, immature – that’s the real #truthbetold. But present that to insecure carly and she suddenly starts attacking. Genuine confidence she was absolutely not. Loud, angry, snappy, aggressive, short temper, issues, manipulative, dishonest, her own agenda, are the real hastags I will always associate with calry simone ymer. Who would entertain the idea of being someone who they originally thought were ‘lame’? Lastly, with her latest escapes of being ‘whole’, it fails her comprehension again. Passive aggression, direct aggression and total public immaturity “dontchawishyourgirlfriendwashotlikeme” in that post has got NOTHING to do with “Namaste” “peace” “truth” “enlighten” “love” which in my experience of her was the last thing that carly simone ymer ever represented, total manipulation and dishonesty was my experience. No cancelled clients and broken relationships have wished for something the total opposite of carly ymer, despite the marketing image of herself she portrays (and is paid to advertise) which through her ignorance has many holes. They left because they wanted someone sincere, kind, helpful, genuine, intelligent, honest, a professional with integrity, not an individual with significant issues themselves. Unless you count the sickening and totally transparent pathetic false act she put on in the waiting room or when she opened the door to the consulting room, carly ymer blowing kisses, wearing a love necklace and wishing everybody well could not have been more opposite to the dishonest, manipulative, aggressive, loud, angry abusive woman who traumatized me that I experienced personally one on one once she shut the door and I was alone with her. It’s very easy for her to put on a public image, but she was so self absorbed and so ignorant she failed to see that other people have something called ‘an instinct’ and basic comprehension. It means they can stand back and observe her inconsistent behaviour, her aggression, her dishonesty and her manipulation of what she says to dominate with her own issue based agenda. Her hashtags are absolutely the total opposite of my experience with her, they only thing they’re consistent with, is the false image she presented when she could be heard by others versus when she was only with me. My experience with carly ymer were traumatic and tortured me for many years to follow leaving me traumatized for many years.
This is carly ymer's sickening false display of herself that describes everything but of what i experienced of her in person. The only thing true about it, is the false image she put forward when she could be heard by others as opposed to when she was alone with me. It also is consistent with how if she had to judge, like she was the moral code - this is the sickening extreme of what she'd put forward about herself despite being a total liar, incredibly dishonest and verbally abusive towards me the client. A adult who was abusive, who reminded me of two life stages: a tantrum throwing baby with her screaming and yelling in session or a teenager who says mean things to provoke a person and they think they're tough. That's the actual reality of carly ymer that i experienced. "When I was a little girl, I innocently believed that if I was kind honest and loyal then that's how others would treat me. I believed in a story of my life going forward that was pure and simple and fairy tale like. I believed that you got what you wanted if you wanted it enough and were willing with effort. That belief took me a long way and bought me wonderful incredible meaningful experiences and people. What I didn't know as that innocent little girl, with big brown eyes, ringlet curls and a wide open heart was that life will always give you what you need and not always what you want. " When i was a little child and was abused I grew up, i thought i would seek help from a psychologist. i thought they could help me heal and help me stand up for myself. I then met carly ymer. she wasn't interested in me or anything i had to say. she was only interested in talking over me with her lies and her self obsessed dominance. "THERE ARE CERTAIN THINGS I WANNA DO BY A CERTAIN AGE!!!" (I post in capitals with carly because she was so LOUD when she spoke and would change her tone according to whatever argument she was manipulatively trying to make, totally inconsistent as it was) She called me stupid and wrote my name up on the whiteboard with "is stupid" on the end. She asked me questions and answered them herself instead of waiting for me. she wore all black and used the word "a*s*hole" to describe the boys who had "broken her heart". She didn't care at all about me the client and said she "I'D GO HOME TO THE PEOPLE I CARE ABOUT!!!" well i found help who was sincere and cared about me, not in the form of self postulating, false image projecting carly ymer who is EVERYTHING but the way she paints herself out to be. Big eyes, ringlets and sincerity didn't come into play with my experience with carly ymer. aggression, accusations, lies, dishonesty, manipulation, loudness, anger and carly's own agenda did. She was incredibly misguided in her responses and approach to life I could see from miles away and I wanted no part of her narcissistic, ignorant, angry world. So i cancelled my appointments and found help elsewhere. I never saw an ounce of heart, sincerity or effort, other than an aggressive push for her own agenda in conversation and in her life - and woe behold anyone who got in her way. So i moved out of carly's ymer, cancelled my appointments and found a real professional. Worst thing i ever did for my mental health was to experience carly ymer, best thing i ever did was to find someone else. Not recommended.
the most terrible person i have ever met in my life. That's the thing with Carly ymer, she failed to understand that when you have an agenda, when you're insincere when you plough through people aggressively, you alienate them. She's alienated clients and relationships alike. Why? Because these situations take 2 people, and Carly is all about Carly's sick mind and attitude. I have never met anyone so loud, aggressive and dominant and who gave themselves permission to lie about clients to no end and to pronounce it loudly and proudly and if the client starts to speak up she aggressively shuts them down again. No carly, 'we're not going to make it', you're dishonest, manipulative and aggressive. The act that you put was totally transparent, i could see through the way you rewrite things to suit your own insecurities in dialogue and the act that you put on once you open the consulting room door to the waiting area. Carly Ymer is a total liar. She's incredibly aggressive and the last thing in the world i would describe her as is genuinely confident. She behaved like an incredibly messed up little child with severe issues. She should not have been in that position and if you have clients walking out traumatised it doesn't mean you know 'exactly what you're doing' it means the total opposite. She was absolutely awful, not recommended in any way shape or form in life.
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