Yes, you can get it from a sex partner, but the virus is not necessarily sexually transmitted.
Can you get COVID-19 from having sex with a person who is infected? Of course you can. First, let’s say this. If you are hanging out close enough to some to have sex with them, you are definitely not social distancing. So, sex or no sex, you could get it. You are breathing in each other’s space so you are definitely sharing your germs. You are also very likely touching each other on the face and elsewhere, where the virus could be present. In these ways, there is a risk of becoming infected with the coronavirus by being romantic with someone without actually having sex with them.
What if you know your partner is infected but you are both wearing masks and visors, and you have disinfected your hands, sex toys, and just about all other surfaces of your skin? This certainly does not sound romantic in the least, but let’s consider it. If we are simply looking at the penetrative act of sex and the bodily fluids involved like semen and vaginal fluids, things are uncertain. Scientists say they do not yet know if the coronavirus can be transmitted sexually. More research is needed to figure this out.
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According to the Mayo Clinic, there are some pandemic sex guidelines. You should refrain from having sex if you or your partner isn’t feeling well. If you think you may have the coronavirus, do not kiss each other or have sex until you are feeling better. You should also consider holding off on sex if your partner is living with a chronic condition that increases their risk of developing a serious case of COVID-19.
If you are having sex during the pandemic, it is a good idea to limit your partners. Obviously, avoid those who are displaying the symptoms of the coronavirus, such as a fever, a dry cough, and fatigue. The Mayo Clinic also recommends that you wear a mask if possible, avoid kissing, use a condom, and use dental dam for oral an anal sex. Wash your hands and shower before and after sex, disinfect your sex toys, and wipe yourself down with soap and/or alcohol wipes in the areas of your body you were active. If all else fails, fall back on masturbation. This is no doubt the safest form of sexual activity during these times, and always, really.
What are some suggestions for staying connected without actually being in the same space? Most places are reopening so getting together may not be a problem for most. We could very well see a second wave of the virus, however. If it hits and you are at home alone, you may consider video chat dating. Cook the same meal and sit down to eat together remotely. Watch a movie together over Zoom. Workout together in the same way. Be creative and stay in touch, even if you cannot actually “touch”. Someday this pandemic will be over.
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