Dr. Daria Davyduke
Highland Family Practice
1966 Guthrie Road , Suite 107C
Comox, BC, Canada
V9M1
1966 Guthrie Road , Suite 107C
Comox, BC, Canada
V9M1
(250) 890-0919
http://www.highlandfamilypractice.ca/
Please don't go to this Doctor, I'm begging people. As other have pointed out shes quick to dismiss patients when she doesn't feel the issue is a big deal. To this point, my wife and I have been having fertility issues since the birth of our son about 8 years ago. Nothing changed health wise between the 2 of us, it really didn't make any sense. Both of us even became health nuts and we were the most fit we had ever been previously. During this time several blood tests were performed on my wife, at no point did Davyduke ever say anything was abnormal on those tests, quite the opposite in fact. Eventually we referred for IVF. Right before our first treatment, the fertility Dr informed us that my wifes platelets have been abnormally high since 2014! When my wife brought this up with Davyduke she dismissed it outright Its a non issue she declared. the IVF treatment was a complete failure, not one egg survived due to low quality of the eggs she was producing. $15k later, my wife had to fight several times with Davyduke to get to the bottom of her abnormal blood tests, as she didn't want to address it at all. To us, it seemed reasonable before dropping another 15k, we should eliminate any other health issues first. We wanted to set ourselves up for success. Davyduke did not seem to grasp this. She even told my wife that referrals will take a long time because "she has other patients with actual issues".
Long story short, when an actual doctor looked at her blood work, he immediately ordered a scan for inflammation (duh!). Her appendix was wildly inflamed and her case was described as "extreme". She has chronic appendicitis, probably since our son was born. Its so bad her appendix is deformed and misshapen. Appendicitis shows up in blood work as high platelets. Not only this, but it affects fertility in women and can reduce the quality of her eggs. During this time, my wife complained of lower back pain several times to Davyduke, which she did nothing about. We know understand these were more symptoms of her appendicitis. We were told that if my wife simply had her appendix removed, we would most likely get pregnant.
All Davyduke had to do is refer my wife to a specialist in 2014, have her appendix removed and we could continue building our family. Instead, we watched our dream of a large family die slowly before our eyes, all the while we watched our son grow up without any siblings. I watched my wife break down after every cycle she didn't get pregnant for over a year. I blamed myself even after sperm tests showed I was fine, nothing made sense to us. We delayed education, postponed life goals, and basically put everything on hold to try and have a second baby. The emotional and mental toll of infertility on a family cannot be over stated. We talked before we were married about having a home filled with kids, that was our goal in life. My son is getting older, and the silence in this house from the lack of kids feels like its killing me sometimes. To now know that literally all that was required was a simple referral, or even just some basic interest in her patient would have saved us all this pain is beyond upsetting.
Davyduke actually passed onto us from the specialist that appendicitis causes infertility in women. When she did, she cheerfully said to my wife "Lets get your healthy so you can have some babies!!!" My wife broke down as soon as she hung up, how could she say that after ignoring her pleas to look into her abnormal blood tests, and belittling her concern? What sort of person would feel no remorse for missing this?
She stole time from us. Life's to short, get a good Doctor.
Submitted Feb. 28, 2021