46 yo fit female fighter pilot. This doctor cancelled on me three times and rescheduled months to weeks out. He even cancelled on me while I was in the waiting room. When I was finally able to see him, he gave me, literally, less than 2 mins and completely dismissed my symptoms. He gave me a paper with a list of foods that can be irritants to the bladder, and told me, don’t eat strawberries. I had a follow-up months later (Jan 2020) and he canceled that too. A year later, March 2020 severe pain and I see a new urologist. Can’t get tested until May because of Covid. This doctor just diagnosed me with Invasive, high grade bladder cancer that goes deep into the muscle. I will never fly again, have to have my bladder removed and this kind of high-grade cancer has likely spread. I HAVE TWIN TWO YEAR OLD BABIES that will likely LOSE THEIR MAMA. We are destroyed.

Submitted May 9, 2020