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Dr. Goldstein was appointed by the court to do a family assessment after my children's father 'invited' two of our children for an unscheduled visit for dinner and they did not return. Father and his family continued to claim it was "the childrens choice" and I was the terrible person in the equation. Neither of us parents had finances to 'entice' a gold digger as many of the other reviews here state. Divorce and putting children in the middle is a sickness of many divorcing parents, even if it's only one of the two parents, a lot of grief and damage is done by that parent and the family of his or her that supports it (and can cost a fortune if this happens). However, it is the children who pay the biggest price. It is their childhood, sense of stability and how they look at themselves and relationships that is at stake. The parents who take that away from the children are the ones who are the problem. Dr. G did his assessment and the court was not 'ready' to hear it. He even called CAS and said the children were being 'emotionally' abused, but the system was not able to help as the children were considered 'safe' as they were getting food and shelter where they were and were not being physically injured. It took over a year and updates from Dr. G. (at additional costs) before the court got to hear my family's/children's case. It is the system that needs help to change and to expedite these cases. It does not surprise me that Dr. G. refers families/children to other Drs./therapists he knows in the PAS community, as it may not be large and did not even exist in T.O. when my family needed it (does it even exist here today?) (it's not collusion or you scratch my back). Even though Dr. G. had the right assessment and eventually at trial the judge made a relatively decent decision for two of my children, however the oldest was too close to 18 to have made a difference. For my oldest it is more than 10 years ( post our divorce) and still is angry at me and the world. There needs to be:
1) quicker movement from the courts for the children to access therapy
2) access (not a financial cost) to the ' appropriate'therapy' for the children to 'deprogram' them locally and not have access during treatment to the alienating parent/family members.
3) If the court is unsure...put the children in the care of a 3rd party while all of this is going on. Better than staying with parent/family members who are turning kids against parents as therapy will never work in that situation.
If the children grow up hating one parent, they will likely be unhappy with themselves as they are part of each parent. I would like to yell at parents who do this alienating "STOP -- YOU ARE HURTING YOUR OWN CHILDREN' (that is what Dr. G. did from the witness stand to my children's father...and the father sat there totally unphased with a blank expression on his face. I guess that's the Narcissist & borderline aspect of him. So, for Dr. G. or any therapist in this very sad and disturbing area of expertise, I am not surprised there are people bashing them. It is a relatively thankless job. I and others do thank you for the service you perform in very difficult situations and sad but necessary area of expertise. Best of luck to any parent going through this ... but keep your children in mind first...no matter how much you are hurting...and I know you are...it is the children who become future members of society and they are the ones who are in trouble and paying the biggest price now. Let's keep hope for the future that they will get the help they need (if they were not able to access it as children) and become happy, healthy adults and productive members of society. We must always have hope for the future. Bless and protect all our children.
Staff: His wife will be in all throughout the assesment and she prepare the report- It is a conflict of Interest
Puncuality:He arrives late 15 mintues for the meeting or waiting for his wife arrival in a one hour session but charges for a hour 650$.
Helpness: Wantly helping the abusers with his Parential Alination Concept( not in the medical book)
Knowledge: He has knowledge how to make a lum sum of money in his custody assesment without practicing proffessional code and ethic of practice.
OVER ALL RATING : JEWISH COMMUNITY SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HAVING HIM IN THEIR COMMUNITY.
I believe he is connected to his hand picked lawyers and judges within the Brampton superior court system.
My ex collected child porn (teen girls under 18 years of age). Dr. Goldstein considered this normal behavior and decided that our children would do best in a 50-50 joint custody arrangement. My children have only suffered since this Decision was made
Do not trust him. He is motivated by money only. He does not listen to the facts. You can flood him with facts but he will not listen ( although he pretends). My ex just happened to be a Doctor ( with a DOCUMENTED history of substance abuse - including a trip to Homewood ; he NEVER asked for the report). I trusted him and he sided with his fellow doctor regardless of what my Son said and myself. 5 years later my Son is still with me. I would not recommend him
My own family's experience with Sol Goldstein has been very negative. I have to concur with the many ratings that find his help to be not at all helpful. It seems his views are swayed by money; and his involvement in fact causes grief even/especially to the children. Very disappointing. One of his latest determinations missed out on a lot of information/research that would have shed a much different light on a situation.
I've known Dr Golstein for many years now as a patient and friend, and let me tell you, all the reviews below Do Not, properly depict the kind Doctor that I know. If you were to read the reviews below, you may feel his some sort of villain. Let me be perfectly clear, this can be no further from the truth. He has gotten me through many hard times throughout the years, he has given me all his contact phone numbers in case I needed him, even gone so far to give me his contact information when he went on vacation (just as a piece of mind) So when I read the reviews of the previous posters, I surely know, that either they are reviewing a different person than I have grown to know and care about over the years, or we are not hearing the whole story.
As I know, he is a kind, generous, highly intelligent person, who is always there for you, when you need him. He doesn't push judgement upon you, merely has genuine discussions of all sides. Lastly, if you feel slighted by your encounter with him, I urge you to take a deep look and thought, whether it was him who you are disappointed with, or the situation.
Thank You for reading this, and hopefully I can shed some proper light, on the truth of Doctor Sol J. Goldstein!
Dr Sol Goldstein is a complete pig, he does not listen to what the children have to say in terms of alienation, he just sides with anyone who has the most money. I do not recommend Dr Sol Goldstein to anyone.
I am currently a single mother and Dr Sol Goldstein helped ruine my life piece by piece. He claimed that I have alienated my daughter from her father (currently my ex-husband). My ex husband was a terrible man, constantly abusing me and my daughter daily. He accused me of alienation before he even met my daughter. I swear on my grandmothers grave that Dr. Goldstein is working with my ex husbands lawer. Dr Goldstein has his hand in my ex husbands lawers pocket. It is all a big set up, avoid Dr. Goldstein at all costs.
Dr Sol Goldstein would do anything to make a quick buck, he does not listen to what my children say in order for him to prove that I have "alienated them" I strongly believe that he is working with my husbands lawer, Brian Ludmer in order to prove that I alienated my 2 children from my husband.
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