Dr. Paul J. Gehring
Tulsa Ob-Gyn Associates Inc
2000 S Wheeling Ave
Tulsa, OK, United States
74104
2000 S Wheeling Ave
Tulsa, OK, United States
74104
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http://www.tulsaobgyn.com
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Dr. Paul J. Gehring's Credentials
Education
- University Of Cincinnati College Of Medicine (Grad. 1989)
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Hi Paul,
I doubt you will see this message or remember me.
I saw you for several years. I had some chronic abdominal pain that you decided was IC (even though it wasn’t a true reaction) and your staff lectured me because I was stressed about changing my diet—once again. (I am also celiac).
Due to my pain continuing, I asked you about endometriosis surgery since my mom had it. You tried to dismiss me by saying you’d do it but really didn’t feel it would give me the answers I needed.
You found stage one endometriosis but still dismissed my pain.
Later, I returned to you for replacing my IUD.
Not only was this one of the most traumatic procedures that left me in agonizing pain while my body was convulsing and cramping involuntarily. It was agonizing pain. My mom was there trying to help me and you felt the need to say ‘yeah, you should probably slow down your breathing.’
Really? Is this how trauma informed a doctor should be?
All of this to say—I now have stage 4 cancer that was pressing on my bladder and kidneys. I suspect it was there at least since 2017 so definitely when you were investigating my ‘IC diagnosis’ (which I haven’t had a flare since my 10x10x11 leiomyosarcoma TUMOR was removed so I don’t believe your diagnosis was accurate and it seems like a quick way to get rid of a difficult patient who needs help and to move on).
I implore you to get out of a narcissistic mindset and see that your mansplaining and dismissive behavior is not only emotionally harmful but also physically harmful.
What if you would have caught my cancer before it got this bad?
Now I’m on disability and traumatized by doctors like you.
This is my email telling you that you owe it to the patients you serve to do better. Listen to them and believe their symptoms. Don’t brush them off assuming you know what’s best.
I am appalled by how you treated me and how many important things you missed while making me feel like it was all in my head.
I have stage 4 cancer, Paul. It was not in my head and you missed it.
Submitted Aug. 5, 2021