JanieDough

Now that those who, obviously, do not like me and continue to state nasty, rude things about me have weighed in, I will state the following:

Based upon wishandaprayer's comments, I was considering changing my name out of respect for your "friend".

However, based upon the way the entire subject was broached and the way one particular poster continues to act....

But, sweetie . . . I've NEVER *stated* that you were someone else. If I have, please direct to that comment. Unless you go by "some people?"

This..."The thing is she *can* dish it out, yet is offended when someone says something that she doesn't like. At least harleyman, when he gets banned, goes sequentially to the next number, so you know that he is still here . . . unlike some people who have been banned, come back on and then deny they are the same person who was banned."...was in the post you directed at me.

Did you forget, sugarplum?

Congratulations on helping me make my mind up about changing my name to honor your "friend" Jane. I hope your actions please you.

Dough, dough, dough . . .

Look at this quote from "Jane Identity revealed"

Now, my comment could mean that I was agreeing with you about harleyman . . . that he "makes up stories as he can't deal with rejection" . . . but YOU took it that I was referring to you . . . My question, is "Why?"

abused, abused, abused.....

You are crossing topics. I addressed something you said here. Now you are just trying to muddy the issue.

Have a good day.

Is your anger out of proportion to the offence? I was only asking you to change your name as it seems to familiar to the JaneQ handle. The fact you have gotten SO upset seems ureasonable to me and makes me wonder if you knew all along this might cause some discomfort and now you are upset because someone called you on it. I chose to do this because I am one here with the least conflict of interest towards defending JaneQ and in fact she might well not appreciate it at all but...A spade is a spade...call it like you see it.
Hey Dae....where is that aviatar of the two faces eating popcorn watching the movie when you need it...this is getting good!

You did not ask me to change my name.

You asked everyone else.

You are a silly man and I can now understand why you and Jane were mortal enemies. Apparently she did not like your attitude either.

Enjoy your popcorn. Your motives are so obvious.

Change your name. It offends me greatly.

D. Where are you? You have been gone for more than 20 minutes.

LMAO!

Isn't that where I spread rumors that you were other posters. ? ? ?

All I know for sure, is that you have a *striking resemblance* in the way you respond to others that some banned posters had.

You have a good day, too, Dough.

Perhaps if I posted in French or German or Yiddish, you would believe differently. I post in English. There are only so many words in the language.

I guess you will continue to call me Dough. No problem. If you believe it bothers me, it does not. Frankly, each time you do, I laugh.

Thanks for making me laugh, abused...or do you prefer emotionally or abusedemotionally?

Does it seem rather odd to anyone else that bones is attempting to remove anything which reminds him of Jane?

I repeat I did not select my name in reference to anyone.

You can choose to believe it or not. Some will not believe it as it would negate the ideas they created in their heads.

If bones were truly interested more in saving the feelings of others, why did he bring up the subject in the forums at all?

If his purpose was to spare feelings or additional pain of others losing their "friend", he went about it in the wrong way.

Several people, even from this site, have told me to keep my name. They do not believe I selected it to cause pain.

I believe bones brought it up to cause pain.

People grieve in their own ways, and I believe that bones was sincere in his grief.

I believe that he misses Jane.

I believe he does not want to be reminded of her due to his statement that they were mortal enemies.

I could see bones' point if someone had used Jane's name.

As no one did, I do not see his point.

Other than the one done to cause pain.

When he found out that Jane had died he was " ", wasn't he?

And, I know what I felt when I first saw "Janie Dough", but I thought that it was just my feelings.

Now - the fact that bones actually felt the same way about something - I hope that people are not going to take that as a "sign".

The sky is blue, and the clouds are pretty...

Well, then a rule needs to be passed that before anyone new signs into this site that all "names" must be cleared through a committee.

Perhaps there is a bit of guilt going around and that is why SOME of you felt "something".

As far as people taking you and bones thinking alike as a "sign"...thoughts are subjective according to the mindset of the person. Life is funny that way.

Oh, and I have no clue how bones felt after Jane's passing. All I've read is him questioning everything and demanding many things.

Yes, if I had only known, I would have responded differently, but I had no way of knowing. I really had an enormous amount of respect for Jane. I didn't think that she needed me in any way, shape or form. I wish that I had known.

JanieDough,
You've been around a while now. Surely you realized that a lot of posters have nicknames. For example, I get called Rocky and RG, but rarely Rocky. Wishandaprayer is Wisher. Abusedemotionally is AE. MicontheNorthShore is Mic. Et cetera, et cetera.

The idea that you have a nickname is a sign that you have been around a while and are making your voice heard. I don't think it's a bad thing.

And everyone, I don't think Janie or Dough or JanieDough should change her name. If she were delibrately trying to hurt us, she would be JanieQDough or use Jane's avatar or something like that. That I WOULD have issue with. But JanieDough, instead of the common Jane Doe is actually quite clever, and my reaction to her name has been amusement. Yes, it is sometimes like seeing a ghost, when I see her name, but I don't hold it against her.

Janie, however, I think you are overreacting to everyone's comments. Well, everyone but Bones, who shouldn't have started the thread. The thread itself is offensive, IMO, but I don't believe that people who responded had some sort of motive.

We should go easy on her until she graduates from "Newbie" to "Great One".

You can call me anything that suits your kneads, chérie.

AE, if you were really abused, I'd get rid of that picture. That's disgusting. You cry emotional abuse. Maybe you can't handle constructive critism. Now I will be banned. I'm not part of the kitty cat club. I think for myself.

What picture is disgusting?

I was taught to never call anyone by a nickname until I was given permission to do so by that person.

I may, I posted may, have overreacted. However, I think if anyone was put on display and then told they did something they did not do in order to hurt someone else and they were not asked to change or delete something but rather put up for comments, they would not take kindly to it.

I have read post after post about how much JaneQ was, and still is, loved. To think I would be so cruel to do something to cause harm to you or other posters was just over the top.

Oh, and being called Dough and having comments made toward me with the word "knead" rather than "need" just shows the attitude that is being directed toward me.

I wonder if I will be given that chance or if my train out of town is being arranged.

Mature of you. I hope it met your kneads, tootsie.

I do feel uncomfortable call you "Janie" . . . and well, YOU choose "Dough" . . . as for "knead"ing . . .
Sheesh . . . it's called a pun on words. . . .

Then you should have asked what to call me rather than making jokes about my name.

JD would work just fine but it is too late. You may call me Ms. JD.

Ah hey, can I be "Mr. Mic"? I tell ya, I don't get no respect around here!

On second thought, no ... we'd have to begin calling HM-6, "Dr. Harley" ...

Well I would not worry overly much.

I know that JaneQ would not. There is not a remote resemblance.

I did not even notice the connection JaneQpatient and JanieDough?????

Because in character there is no resemblance.

It is only like comparing A to Z

Let her be JanieDough..............so what.

. . . the next time I see a girl on a bicycle, who is taking her feet of the pedals to go downhill, I'll tell her that is disgusting. I'm pretty sure she'll look at me funny, though.

Or are you seeing something that I'm not???

I have no clue what you mean by this...."Because in character there is no resemblance." I am not going to even try to understand.

I thought it was quite clever, fwiw.

You know what I think? You asked. I think the picture depicts someone who should know better by now and any **** can get on this site. Not advertise open legs. THERE YOU HAVE IT!!! You asked. What are your intentions?

Thank-you . . . glad someone appreciated it.

DG - Have you watched this?
http://www.slide.com/r/IKrNuGFFwj-kLXlHPJePmYt8e36m_VE9?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original
This is where the avatar comes from. AE as on an "emotional rollercoaster" all her life.
There is nothing perverted about this little girl.

OMG . . . I really can't believe this.
No wonder children's innocence it robbed at an early age with a mindset like that.
My avatar came from this:

I wonder how you would do with a Rorschach test.

Wisher, I understand, but I'm not stupid.

Well I am, so if you want to explain it to me in a private p.m. - maybe I would get it.

I'd rather that she post on the thread, because obviously I'm stupid, too.

Damaged Goods
Shame on you-

Your interpretation of an innocent
picture shows where your own mind is

I just hope AE can handle this insult

I suggest we end this now.

It has gone on quite long enough.

It's just getting started !!
game on

AE,
In defense of DG, I always thought your avatar was a bit odd (for some of the same reasons as DG), until I saw the whole picture. Then everything made sense.

DG,
When you saw the whole picture, didn't it seem to describe AE perfectly?

I always saw it as an emotional roller coaster, and am amazed that anyone saw it any other way!!

To me, it suited AE perfectly.

It must be some sort of optical illusion that affects DG and me.

Then again, I haven't figured out DG's new avatar either.

I instantly saw "Her life IS a roller coaster!!. I thought nothing else of it.

That's what I thought, too . . . oh well, I can't control how other people see things.

Well, it does explain a great deal about abusedemotionally.

Unfortunately, some people use their issues as crutches forever....never getting over anything and taking it all out on the people who did not cause the problems.

Out of line, JanieDough, out of line.

Don't worry about it, Rocky . . . considering the source . . . well, what can I say?

Don't you mean, 'sourcES'.

LOL . . . now that you said it, I guess I don't have to.

You expect me to be fair? That is a laugh.

You expect me to be kind and have compassion? Sorry, fresh out.

I am done attempting to get this crap to stop. People get banned (harleyman) over and over yet continue to do what got them banned in the first place.

No wonder so many other posters said they no longer post. I can understand why. Unless you are a maverick or part of a clique, you are considered fair game. Apparently, until the targeted person either gets themselves banned or leaves, the crap continues with more insecure people jumping on the hate wagon.

Exactly how many people has the gang driven off? I can bet the majority of the people who no longer post wish they had the same rights to post as those who would target them to ensure they don't.

Be proud of your gang mentality. That mentality has been in the news a great deal this week.

"Don't worry about it, Rocky...considering the source...well, what can I say?"

You will think of something. You learned how to abuse others quite well, abusedemotionally.

LOL....Harleyman is Daenerys. I have done extensive reading and Harleyman and Daenerys both pick on wishandaprayer the same (as well as other posters). More Harleyman personalities rearing their ugly heads.

What I expect is that people do not make fun of another's difficulties.

Since several of you have nothing in your lives except using others for your own personal enjoyment, I truly hate to inform you that I have much to do today. I would invite you along but my friends are valuable and I do not believe in exposing them to toxins.

Go ahead, keep posting. Just think. Any new posters to the site will see your ever so welcoming posts and, in all likelihood, those comments will reflect on this site as a whole.

I wonder if those who created this site will ever realize that allowing this type of behavior will only reflect poorly on them and their efforts to provide a venue for patients and doctors to reach an understanding.

Then again, is this site for helping or harming. It does make one wonder.

Now did I address anyone in particular? No! Yet, I am singled out on more than one topic.

Believe me, I could press the issue and really make fun. I have been shown exactly how to do so.

Why should I care about feelings or compassion or empathy? So I can continue to be ridiculed? After all, no matter what I post, someone around here uses it to further their own insecurities.

One would think after all the nastiness Harleyman has sent your way...questioning your abilities as a nurse, etc., you would find his behavior to be unacceptable.

It appears if someone else is in the hot seat, it makes it all better.

I've learned a great deal about how many of you have been in the hot seat. What is bizarre is how you have no problem going after others who are in the very position you were placed.

What does that say about you?

One would think after all the nastiness Harleyman has sent your way*************Annoying as that is, this does not mean that I am in any way sticking up for him. We most definitely have a personality conflict. To suggest that Harleyman is Daenerys, is just purely ridiculous.

Harleyman is D.??????????

No way!!!

But - I wonder "who" D. is...

Yep, that certainly nails it for me! It never fails to amaze me how Dr. Daenerys (who has been sighted in Canada driving with Canadian plates) has such an intimate knowledge of US-style medicine. Must be dually licensed! Yeah, that's it. ROFLMAO

Then again, it was sighted by me, in my rearview mirror.

I am gooooooood!
Daenerys walks away, blowing on knuckles.

Jeez, practicing medicine and home schooling her kids all at the same time!!!!!

WonderWoman??

SuperMan??

or has gender been established?

See what you started? Shame on you! Now Harleyman 1,2,3,4,5 and 6 will become all mushy with Heartthrob and all the spice will be gone from this site.

Repent! Go and sin no more!

Ha,impossible. I was looking for something on another thread,now its gone. Musta been removed.

HM 5 is an imposter!

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Some would have us believe.